Why I’ve Learned to Embrace My AD(H)D ‘Do Nothing’ Days

Some days, my AD(H)D brain just… shuts down. Not a planned “self-care Sunday” shutdown, but a foggy, chest-tightening pause where even thinking about my to-do list feels impossible. If you’re a working mom with a brain like mine, you know this isn’t laziness—it’s mental overload. I used to fight it, but now? I’m learning to embrace these “do nothing” days, and here’s why they’re my secret weapon.

4/17/20251 min read

My brain’s a whirlwind of scattered thoughts, and when executive function overload hits, no amount of coffee or willpower can pull me through. I used to pile on the guilt, thinking I had to power through or something’s gotta give. But I’ve realized that sometimes, nothing is exactly what I need to recharge.

How I Make Peace with Doing Nothing
No planners or apps can fix a brain that’s checked out. Here’s how I’ve learned to lean into those foggy days:

Step 1: I Ditch the Guilt
I remind myself I’m not my to-do list. Rest isn’t a reward I have to earn—it’s a must for my AD(H)D brain. A day spent just being counts as much as a day spent doing.

Step 2: I Shift to Low-Energy Mode
Instead of forcing productivity, I do small, soul-filling things. I sit in the sun, sip tea slowly, or stare at a wall (yes, really). I might even jot a quick gratitude note in my The Five Minute Journal to ground myself.

Step 3: I Trust the Rebound
Here’s the magic: those “do nothing” days recharge me. They clear the fog, spark clarity, and bring me back stronger—without the pressure of a color-coded calendar.

Why This Works for My Busy Brain

  • Soothes overwhelm: Doing nothing quiets my mental clutter

  • Rebuilds energy: Rest refills my tank when I’m running on empty

  • Kills shame: I stop feeling like I’m “failing” at life

This isn’t about giving up. It’s about giving myself permission to pause so I can keep going.

Try It Yourself
Next time your brain checks out, let it. Try a 5-minute Headspace meditation or just sit still for a bit. You’ll be amazed at how a “do nothing” day can reset your AD(H)D brain.

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